How to express yourself 👇

by Sachinjat007. Posted on Sep 11, 2020    9    4

Do you struggle with expressing yourself in front of people?⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Are you afraid of saying the wrong things and making mistake while speaking?⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Have you noticed yourself sometimes that you want to say something but couldn’t say it?⁣⁣

⁣⁣ I know it happens with a lot of people.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ It’s embarrassing and annoying when you can’t say what you want to say.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ But, have you ever thought about why do you struggle with that?⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Just the other day I was talking with one of my clients and we were doing some exercise together.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ She was speaking something and suddenly she stopped and said: “oh, it’s not funny”.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ I said “how do you know if it’s funny or not?” you didn’t even finish your sentence yet.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Did you notice something?⁣⁣

⁣⁣ It’s self-judgement which stops you from expressing yourself.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ It’s YOU who is holding yourself back by judging yourself.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ No one is perfect and no one says the right thing, at the time, and at the right place every time.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Beware,⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Trying to be perfect and saying the right things all the time can stop you from saying anything AT ALL.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ If you want to be a good speaker, memorise words, use scripts and prepared lines.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ But if you want to be an amazing speaker, be authentic and don’t judge yourself.⁣⁣

⁣⁣ Share your thoughts and ideas like it MATTERS and believe that whatever you have to say is valuable.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣

Thanks for reading.

What are your biggest challenges when it comes to speaking in front of people?


elma3allem 5

This is a great message but honestly written like one of those crappy LinkedIn post.

  Sachinjat007 2

Thank you!! Well had to write like this because this day's people can't read lengthy posts. If that makes sense.

elma3allem 3

This is a lengthy post

  Sachinjat007 1

Hah kind of 😁